It's OK to Ask Questions

As a parent of a child with autism, I've often encountered situations where people make assumptions about my child's abilities and needs. It's quite common on the journey of parenting a child on the autism spectrum. This has led me to realize the profound importance of asking questions rather than assuming anything about anyone's child.

Embracing Differences, Not Assumptions

Every child (not just children with autism) is unique, with their own set of strengths and challenges.

While children on the spectrum might not be able to do everything other kids do, or they may do things differently. It's crucial to understand that what works for one child may not work for another. This is why making assumptions can be so limiting and often incorrect.

Just Ask!

When in doubt, ask. If you're unsure how to interact with a child with autism, talk to those who know them best – their parents or siblings. These family members can provide invaluable insights into the child's preferences, triggers, and effective communication strategies.

Questions Lead to Accommodation

Asking the right questions can reveal the best ways to accommodate a child with autism in various settings, whether it's at school, during playdates, or in community activities. By understanding their specific needs, we can create environments where they feel comfortable, included, and able to thrive.

Avoiding Exclusion By Inquiring

One of the most significant benefits of asking questions is the avoidance of exclusion based on assumptions.

When we assume, we risk inadvertently leaving out children with autism from activities or conversations where they could have participated and enjoyed themselves.

Asking Leads to Inclusivity

The simple act of asking questions opens up a world of understanding and inclusivity. It helps us to see the individual child, with their unique abilities and needs, rather than a stereotype. Let's make a conscious effort to ask, learn, and include, creating a world that is more accommodating and respectful for children with autism and their families.